Your Private Guide to Oral Sex, part 1

Learn the ins and outs and ups and downs of pleasuring your guy orally. Use these helpful tips next time you go down on your man and he’ll be blown away (literally).

Tip #1: Be Confident!
When you’re giving a guy head, he is at your mercy. Take advantage of these moments by showing him who’s in control and who is responsible for giving him such intimate and intense sensations. This is you gift to your guy: Own it, follow your instincts, and have fun!

Tip #2: Get Comfy!
You don’t want to rush your guy along because you’re in an awkward position. Make sure you start out comfortably so you can be at ease and not worry about moving him around too much during the act. If you want to kneel on the ground, for example, make sure you’ve got pillows for your knees. Also, it’s better if you’re in a position where you’re not just using your head, but your shoulders and upper back too; otherwise your neck will tire easily.

Tip #3: Tease!
Just like with regular sex, a BJ is more intense if he’s made to wait for it. Start out with some foreplay and only make your way to his penis slowly. Give him little wet kisses right NEAR his penis, but try and make him a little crazy before you actually put your lips on the target.

Tip #4: Keep Teasing!
When you finally give in to his pleas and decide it’s ready for some serious hard on action, move in and then hold back just a little bit longer. Give a little lick on the tip of his penis and then continue kissing or licking his thighs or bellybutton. Finally, after a bit more teasing, go in for a big lick.

At this point, he’ll be sexually aroused and begging for more and you’ll feel like a sex goddess who is the only one is world who can answer his prayers. Stay tuned to find out just what to do once you’ve got him thisclose to being inside your mouth…