The Bigger Breasts Dilemma

I have a friend who recently had her breast implants taken out. All through her teens and twenties she wished she had bigger boobs, finally got them in her thirties, and then very soon afterwards realized that they didn’t make her any more sexually attractive and didn’t stir any extra sexual arousal in her partners. In the end, they gave her some complications, so she got rid of them.

She will now tell you, as I have told women for years, as men will gladly be willing to share with you too: that bigger boobs don’t matter.

Sure a guy likes to have something to hold onto, but what’s most important for sexual pleasure and to get sexually aroused is that a woman is confident with her body. This, guys tell us over and over again, is crucial. To a guy, confidence equals sexiness.

Here are a few tips to help you feel more confident with breasts that may not be “up to par” with what you consider ideal.

•    Get a sexy padded push-up bra. Sure it sounds like simple advice, but it works! Wonderbra, for example, makes sexy, lacy, demi-cut push-ups that can make you look rounder, fuller, and almost a cup size bigger.

•    Stand up straight. If you slouch over, your breasts will get hidden in your shoulders. Also, standing up straight will give you an added air of confidence and will make you look better all around.

•    Brush on some blush, one shade darker than your skin tone, between your breasts to allow for the appearance of shadows due to cleavage.

•    Exercise. Strengthening the pectoral muscles around your breasts can help them lift up and appear larger.

But again, the most important thing is that you feel good about the way you look. I guarantee you that if you love your breasts, so will any guy who’s lucky enough to see them!