Nice Girls Can Have Anal Sex, Too!

Yes, it’s true. Just because anal sex has been taboo until now, doesn’t mean that you need to be uncomfortable with it. Try and focus more on how exotic this act can be rather than on the unpleasant aspects of penis/butt penetration.

Let’s continue our conversation from last time and address women’s two major hesitations:

First, anal sex does not need to be an icky experience. Here are some tips to make sure you reduce the gross factor and increase the sex appeal.
•    Empty your bowels before engaging in the act.
•    Make sure that the anus and the area around is properly cleansed.
•    If you’ve got some unwanted hair in the behind area, consider waxing the area to pretty it up a bit.
•    Apply a nice smelling lotion to the buttocks area—not inside, but just on the cheeks. You’re guy probably won’t be concerned with smell (especially if you’ve cleaned yourself), but it may make you feel more confident with him going near that area.
•    Even though the anus is generally for things going out, try and adjust your attitude to allow for the acceptability of things going in as well.
•    Don’t feel guilty—you’re not doing ANYTHING wrong!

And regarding the “ouch”, here are a few tips to help with that:
•    Go heavy on the lube.
•    The more sexually aroused you are, the more open to the idea you’ll be and the less painful it will be.
•    Make sure he penetrates slowly and gently. Ask him to use one or two well-lubed fingers before switching to his hard on.
•    And most importantly, RELAX. You may even start to enjoy yourself…

In order to maximize sexual pleasure through the rear, it’s important that you’re comfortable with what you’re doing.