How to Unleash His Fantasies without Getting Uncomfortable

He’s hinted to you that he’d be interested in spicing things up a bit. In the heat of the moment he’s whispered into your ear how sexy it would be if he could watch the sex scene you’re currently acting out on screen later. You can tell he’s itching to turn your nice sex life a little naughty.

Here are some popular sex fantasies and some tips on how you can make his fantasies a reality without making yourself uncomfortable.

Sex Fantasy #1: Sex in Public
You’re uncomfortable with this concept, but only because the thought of getting caught in broad daylight mortifies you. Try sticking to nighttime soirees in very private places, like the roof of an apartment building or a deserted area in a park or beach (a bit more risqué). He’ll get the sexual pleasure of having sex outside where you could potentially get caught—let’s face it: isn’t that part of the draw?—and you’ll get security that chances are against you actually getting caught.

Sex Fantasy #2: Make a Dirty Movie
Increase your guy’s sexual arousal by agreeing to film your own home porno. If the idea creeps you out a bit, make sure you agree with certain stipulations. For example, if you’re worried that someone may find the movie, agree to film it only if you can then erase it after viewing it a few times. Or don’t let him film your face, so in case it is ever found, you’ve still got some anonymity.

Sex Fantasy #3: S&M
S&M doesn’t need to include handcuffs, leather whips, and other things which may freak you out. If you know he’s got S&M on his mind, surprise him by initiating a mild form of the kinky act. Take a pair of your silky stockings or a lacy bra and tie him up with that. Use things you’re comfortable with—your panties, his tie, and other things from around the bedroom and perform a tamer form of tying him up, spanking, and even blindfolding or loosely gagging. Your initiative and the feel of your sexy clothes against his body will make him go wild!