How To Turn Post-Coital Snoozing Into Post-Coital Bliss: Sexy Methods to Get Him Wanting More

Just because sex is over doesn’t mean that you both need to roll off into your separate directions and start catching up on missed zzzz’s. Then why does it seem like that’s what keeps happening?

Here’s the problem, and it all boils down to hormones (what else is new?): After men orgasm, their bodies and minds seem to completely shut down. They are instantly exhausted and want nothing more than some good shut-eye or quiet time in front of the tube. Women, on the other hand, respond to post-sex hormones differently. Instead of letting an intense shag wear them out, women become sexually turned on, and are up for more bonding and intimacy, not less.

There are other ways to keep your man awake and alert after sex other than pinching him or bopping him on the face with a pillow. Let’s be honest, if you pry his eyelids open with toothpicks, he probably won’t be too happy. You want him awake and you want him happy.

Looks like you need a plan B if you’re guy is guilty of trying to pull off the hug-and-roll and is leaving you high and dry.

Here are some tried-and-true sexy methods to keep him wanting more even after the big O has come and gone.

1.    Offer to give him a massage. Just because he’s tired doesn’t mean he has to go to sleep, and it certainly doesn’t mean that he can’t be lulled into a romantic post-coital back rub. Few would turn down such a pleasure. His body will still be sensitive to the touch, so go easy, but there’s a good chance that some unexpected skin-to-skin contact after he thought it was over will keep him more alert and game for more intimacy.
2.    Guys may need time to recover after their erection, but for you, actual intercourse may just be the beginning. If you’re not quite satisfied from the first go, ask your man if he minds if you continue on alone. Giving yourself some downstairs action will work to get you where you’re dying to go, and, let’s be honest – he’s not going to be able to fall asleep with you moaning and groaning beside him.
3.    What’s better than a hot, sizzling romp in the sack? A hot, sizzling shower afterwards. There’s no better way to reawaken post-sex nerves than with a sexy scrub-down for two. Take turns lathering each other with soap and allow the hot water to heat up a going-cold situation before it gets there. The hot water will increase blood flow and circulation – you’ll both feel hot, sexy, and ready for more.
4.    Now’s certainly not the time to talk about bills, the kids, work stress, or who’s going to clean up after dinner, but that doesn’t mean talking is off limits. Want to strike up a conversation but are afraid you’ll have trouble getting a word in before he reaches for the remote? Well get in there fast and pay him a carnal compliment. He’ll want to hear about how his sexual skills wowed you pretty much more than he’ll want to do anything else. So just drop a “I really liked the way you circled my ear with your tongue as I came” and you’ll have his complete attention. Be specific so he knows you’re being sincere.
5.    Can’t get his energy level back up? Then maybe it’s time to compromise with a satisfying snuggle. With a good cuddle, he can get the rest he’s jonesing for and you can get the intimacy and closeness your craving.