July 16, 2009

• The Hot Doc Dilemma

  If you’ve got a thing for guys in uniform, then your doctor in his sexy white coat and stethoscope may tip you right over the edge. If you’ve developed a crush on your local McSteamy, then consider yourself totally normal. The combo of his caring, nurturing disposition, his dashing white coat, and your vulnerability, is [...]

• Anal Sex: Health Risks and Safety Tips

  So you want to get down and dirty with some backdoor action but aren’t sure about the risks? While anal sex is still considered to be an exotic and taboo sexual activity, for many couples, it is also considered to be a safer alternative to traditional vaginal sex. Is this assumption correct? Let’s look at [...]

July 15, 2009

• Four Reasons Why Guy Like Girl On Top

  Ask a guy what his favorite sex position is and he’s likely to say girl on top. What is it about this basic position that still gets guys ga-ga?
  1.    You look good. When you’re on top, your guy gets to lay back, relax, and admire you from the best possible angle. As long as you’re [...]

• Dating and Herpes, part 2

  In the event that you have genital herpes and your partner doesn’t, you still have some excellent options when it comes to protection.  A condom should always be your first line of defense, though its shortcomings are a little more noticeable when it comes to herpes.  Genital herpes tends to have outbreaks around the entire [...]

• Dating and Herpes, part 1

  Finding out you have genital herpes can be a bummer.  But it doesn’t have to spell the end of your social life!  Dating and herpes don’t have to be mutually exclusive.  Many people are out there actively dating with genital or oral herpes.  Here are some ways for you to deal.
  Make sure to tell your [...]

July 14, 2009

• What Guys Do and Don’t Think About During Sex

  I begged my guy friends to let me quote them directly for this article. Most agreed, but a few made me change their names. These are, however, their EXACT comments when I asked them what they think about while they’re hooking up with a girl. Some have steady girlfriends, some wives, and some are notorious [...]

July 12, 2009

• Getting the cold shoulder in bed? Maybe there’s a problem…

  If you find that you initiate sex most of the time and that sometimes when you do, your guy comes off as being less than interested, it could be that he’s got a sexual problem that he’s simply avoiding. It could be a lack of testosterone which is making his libido nosedive, or he could [...]

July 8, 2009

• Enhancing Your Sex Life Online

  I’m not talking about cyber sex here — that was so 1990s — I’m talking about buying sex-enhancing drugs and treatments for sexual dysfunctions online. I once mentioned Womera and Sure Romance as good options for boosting a women’s libido, and of course we know for men there are great ED treatments out there that [...]

July 7, 2009

• Fun in the Sun: How to Have a Sexy Picnic

  Nothing yells out summer romance more than an intimate picnic for two. Don’t let the summer heat stop you from dining outside with your honey. Here are five ways you can keep the heat between you without letting the heat outside get to you:
  1.    Surprise your guy with a dinner-time picnic. Pick him up from [...]

July 6, 2009

• Are You Ready For A Threesome?

  If you are considering inviting a third party into your bed, then the first thing you need to ask yourself and your partner is: Are you ready for a threesome?
  Pros of a threesome:
  •    Just the thought of this exotic ménage à trios is enough to turn on some people (usually guys first – it takes [...]

• The Bigger Breasts Dilemma

  I have a friend who recently had her breast implants taken out. All through her teens and twenties she wished she had bigger boobs, finally got them in her thirties, and then very soon afterwards realized that they didn’t make her any more sexually attractive and didn’t stir any extra sexual arousal in her partners. [...]

• Your Private Guide to Oral Sex, part 2

  …You’ve teased him, you’ve made him wild, you’ve made him beg to be put out of his misery. And so now it’s time to do just that. Here’s how to give your guy a blow job that’ll leave him in awe and in ecstasy.
  Tip #5: Ease him in slowly…
  He is totally aroused and his erection [...]

• Your Private Guide to Oral Sex, part 1

  Learn the ins and outs and ups and downs of pleasuring your guy orally. Use these helpful tips next time you go down on your man and he’ll be blown away (literally).
  Tip #1: Be Confident!
  When you’re giving a guy head, he is at your mercy. Take advantage of these moments by showing him who’s in [...]

July 5, 2009

• Some Facts about Orgasms and How to Ensure you Get Them

  Did you know that less than 50% of women climax from sexual intercourse, but that more than 95% can achieve an orgasm from clitoral stimulation?
  Did you know that more than 50% of women admit to having faked an orgasm at one point or another, if not on a regular basis?
  Did you know that the common [...]

• Four Ways to Boost a Droopy Libido

  If you’re having trouble getting sexually aroused or are feeling a drop in sexual pleasure, then these six things could help you:
  1.    Get yourself in the mood – Just before your man comes over, get into some sexy lingerie, put on romantic music (Latin music is great for getting ready), light some candles, and pour [...]

July 2, 2009

• How to Get your Own Sparks Flying on July 4th

  1.    Be tourists in your own town. Put on your khakis and sunhats and head out to the local tourist traps. Go crazy with a camera, asking passers-by to take pictures of you and your man being über-touristy. You’ll have a great time acting silly and, where there are tourists there are fireworks, so plan [...]

• Everything You Need to Know about a Yeast Infection

  What causes a yeast infection? How is it treated? Is it contagious? Can I have sex if I have a yeast infection?
  A yeast infection can be an unpleasant sort of thing, but with the proper attention and knowledge about them, you can be infection-free in no time. Lets get down to the nitty gritty detail.
  A [...]

• Birth Control 101: The Pill

  With so many options out there it’s hard to know where to start. Use this guide to get you started in your search for the perfect pill.
  First, who should use oral contraception, or “the pill”?
  If you are having sex on a regular basis, then you may consider getting a prescription for birth control pills. If [...]

• How to Talk to Your Partner about Erectile Dysfunction

  This is a tough situation for everyone involved. Erectile Dysfunction (ED, or impotence) is a condition whereby men are unable to perform sexually due to an inability to achieve or maintain an erection. When ED enters a relationship, it can take a serious toll on both partners, emotionally and physically.
  Here are some tips that will [...]

• Bedroom Talk No-Nos

  It’s good to share your thoughts with your partner in bed, to give tips and encouragement and to yell out in ecstasy when he’s done something exactly right. While sexual communication is important in bed, it’s also good to know when you’ve gone too far. Here are a few tips about what should be avoided [...]