Are You Ready For A Threesome?

If you are considering inviting a third party into your bed, then the first thing you need to ask yourself and your partner is: Are you ready for a threesome?

Pros of a threesome:
•    Just the thought of this exotic ménage à trios is enough to turn on some people (usually guys first – it takes women longer to ease up to the idea). If the thought is so intense, imagine how mind-blowing the act will be.
•    It can be an exciting way to spice up a going-stale sex life and if the relationship is casual to begin with, there’s little at stake.
•    You can both pleasure one person and enhance sexual pleasure for yourself by receiving  at the same time.
•    Many people are aroused by watching other people have sex and having a threesome provides the perfect setting for that scenario.

Cons of a threesome:
•    Intense jealousy can spring up if two people in a threesome couple up, especially if one of those two is the invited guest and not part of the original couple.
•    There are those that say that if you sex life needs something as extreme as a threesome to spice it up, then it’s probably not worth saving. You should be able to find sexual satisfaction and sexual pleasure within the couple, and not outside it, especially if it’s a committed relationship.
•    A third party can break down the private intimacy that exists between a couple, thus breaking down a pillar of their relationship.

If you’ve addressed these things and know the risks you are running regarding your relationship, your sex life, and your self-esteem, and still want to give it a whirl, then by all means – it could be exactly what you and your partner are looking for. But if any of these options scare you, then it’s probably better that you look to enhance your sex life just between the two of you.

P.S. If you do opt for a threesome, make sure you invite someone who you both trust to join you.